Who's Your City?, by Richard Florida
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Darien, CT to New York City

Although I have lived in many different places and countries, I technically grew-up in Darien, Connecticut. Having spent my middle and high school years there, I now call the small, suburban town home. After moving out of my house two years ago, I have a newfound appreciation for the town I once found intolerable. Now that I do not live there anymore, I am grateful for the fresh air, open space, and quiet and cleanly roads.

Darien is a quintessential New England town and one of the most affluent places in the United States. The homes are large and the yards larger. Winding country roads twist and turn through forests and massive houses that are sized for hotels. Along the Long Island Sound beautiful mansions are positioned along the coastline. Darien has four country clubs (all with extensive waiting lists and a hefty admissions fee), a hunt club, and two yacht clubs. Darien is mainly a residential town with some stores, a few restaurants, and a few chain-stores along the Post Road (all strictly controlled by the town’s founding fathers). The car is used to get anywhere, even up the street to a friend’s house.

This suburban town houses mainly nucleur families with proper housewives (and scandals) and kids who excel at sports and strive for Ivy League colleges, while being safely brought up in a sheltered community which is tight-nit and familiar. There is one middle school and one high school and everyone knows everyone. Many Darientites (real term) grow up in Darien and raise their own kids there as well. Moving there as a 12-year-old from Los Angeles was a shock for me, as well as my whole family. The Indian summer and sprawling forests were a pleasant change, but we were not used to the conservative nature of this small East Coast town. The people seemed uniform and striving to be the perfect residents for a perfect coastal New England town. There are many interesting and down-to-Earth people in Darien once you really look, but there are also many welathy people that live rather protected lives.The people, perfectly manicured lawns, and typical American ideals are a point of awe and confusion to my family in Europe.

As comforting and tranquil it now is to go home (for a few days), the second I was able to leave I moved the opposite of Darien: London, England. After London, I moved to Midtown Manhattan in New York City. As draining as it is, I thrive on the city and its energy. I left the Long Island Sound for the Hudson, the expansive green lawns for concrete sidewalks, a quiet house for a loud apartment practically on the street, a car for the subway and walking, and homogeneous residents for the largest variety of people in the world.

Although Darien will always be part of me, I am always ready for a new adventure and prefer the bustling city life to the monotonous suburban life.

Below are sections of the song “Little Boxes” by Malvina Reynolds (covered by The Decemberists) that I believe explains Darien, Connecticut to a certain extent.

Little boxes on the hillside, Little boxes made of ticky tacky,
Little boxes on the hillside, Little boxes all the same.
And the people in the houses, All went to the university,
Where they were put in boxes, And they came out all the same,
And there’s doctors and lawyers, And business executives,
And they’re all made out of ticky tacky, And they all look just the same.
And they all play on the golf course, And drink their martinis dry,
And they all have pretty children, And the children go to school,
And the children go to summer camp, And then to the university,
Where they are put in boxes, And they come out all the same.
And the boys go into business, And marry and raise a family
In boxes made of ticky tacky, And they all look just the same.

Sent by Kim from Darien, CT

One Response to “Darien, CT to New York City”

  1. Brian Says:

    Very good read. The “Little Boxes” reference is perfect.

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